"Fat"

I don't remember most of my relatives' faces. When I said that, somebody told me, "That's why you need to meet them when they come to our house." Nuh. Nope nope nope. I don't want to meet people who are not close to me. Not because I hate them. But sometimes they said something that I don't like. You look fat. That's what they said. I know not everyone said that to me. But when I tried to be a nice person who welcome our guests, somebody said that sentence. In the past I will just give them bitter smile. Then I went on a diet and loose few kilograms. When I met another relative, she said, "You got fatter." Then I remember all my effort to cut sugar, to stop eating all my favorite snacks, only to get "fat" comments.

After that, I stop being nice. Every time someone told me that I was fat, I would clearly show annoyed face. Why do I have to be nice to someone who said something unpleasant to me? Why do I have to be polite when people can be rude to me? Why can't I show that I was unconfortable when people calling me "fat"? "They just want to have a conversation with you," they said. No. If you can't talk to me about topics other than "fat", you don't need to have a conversation with me. Just a "hello" should be enough, then you can ignore me and I will ignore you.

"It is a fact that you're fat. You shouldn't be angry," they said. So, you mean I can go around telling people that they are fat or ugly just because it's fact? Ridiculous.